Several times every day my husband NAGS me about being normal. Don't do that, normal people wouldn't do that, OMG, that isn't normal, normal people wouldn't do that - the worst one is -
what would normal people think?
I want to pull my hair out and literally SCREAM back at him what is normal?
I know so many of you have known the feeling - not just SCREAMING back at your husband BUT what is normal?
Today I have been in search of the definition of normal according to Google is:
That just doesn't answer my question - conforming to a standard, usual, typical, or expected.
or
The usual, average, or typical state or condition.
I found a definiton I like a whole lot better
Urban Dictionary: normal
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=normal
A word made up by this corrupt society so they could single out and attack those who are different.
A word made up by this corrupt society so they could single out and attack those who are different.
I'm quite surprised by the different definitions aren't you?
I do not consider myself to be usual, average and definitely not typical. I also make it a point to never do what is expected.
Remember Me the Lady that has been Searching for Relief from Chronic Pain for 30+ years I have nothing but time on my side to research what is or isn't normal - My conclusion for myself is I'M NOT NORMAL in the eyes of anyone else. The Most Important part is I AM NORMAL to ME.
There is no right or wrong answer to what is Normal. Normal is a perception, a judgement on our behavior by comparing our behavior to that of others. I have come to the conclusion that what is Normal for someone else is definitely not normal for me.
How do you define normal? Leave your definition in the comments below.
Liz
Liz
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